Shift from judgment to curiosity. When someone is talking with you, instead of wondering when they’ll be finished, ask “Is there more about that?” They can relax when they know you are curious and listening. When you stick with curiosity, something new shows up… the experience of wonder.
“Not knowing” is good for relationships and connecting with people. It helps you listen and be open. Life can become a wonder, and people can become a wonder if you wonder about them!