A Process Changing Relationships Around the World
Safe Conversations® combines relationship education and brain science into a step-by-step dialogue process that creates safety so people can connect.
It's a way of interacting that empowers you to:
Safe Conversations® empowers you to talk without criticism, listen without judgment, and connect beyond differences.
Relationship skills can be taught.
It's not natural to slow down and take steps to understand another person. These skills can be taught, and we can train our brains to experience a sense of belonging like never before. Safe Conversations teaches you how.
Objection to difference is the source of conflict.
Top relationship experts Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., began by asking, "Why do couples fight?" What they discovered led them to develop a simple process of taking turns talking and listening in a structured way that creates safety in relationships. They found it works in ANY relationship, and they began teaching workshops to share the life-changing process.
Who is Safe Conversations For?
Experience It For Yourself
The best way to learn Safe Conversations is through a workshop.
Why Learn Safe Conversations?
What to Know About the Process
Research Shows that Safe Conversations creates positive change in participants
Southern Methodist University Center on Research and Evaluation (SMU CORE) tracked participants from two Safe Conversations Workshops
Relationships are Better with Safe Conversations
“Recently, I was in a meeting at work where a lot of complaining was going on. The moment felt right, so I jumped in: “I’ve learned that underneath every complaint is a need that isn’t being met. Can we rephrase our complaints into needs?” Everyone was looking at me like “Wow, what a concept.” One person, and then another, went for it. Safe Conversations really changed the tone of the meeting.”Dalia
“The simple, straight-forward structure of Safe Conversations can truly be a life-changing platform for veterans and their families, especially for those returning from conflict and who suffer from PTSD. These veterans have often experienced terrible things in defending freedom and they struggle to communicate with their families, the work place, and society at large.”Cary Clayborn
“There’s not a day that goes by in my practice that I don’t use SC. For so many couples its a life-changer. They’ve never been taught how to communicate, and they don’t feel safe with each other.”Dr. Bob Breen
“Attending the Safe Conversations workshop is like cleaning the windows for the first time. You may think your view is great. In reality, you have no idea how much better it can be! Whether family, coworkers, patients, complete strangers, or even my five-year-old son, the Safe Conversations tools make a world of difference.”Malie
“This entire process has changed the way I approach not just my wife but how I approach others. I have been using these tools for about four months. It is life-changing. It is the only thing I have ever done that has helped me express myself.”Dan