Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and this season, it probably looks a lot different for most of us. When normally you may be venturing out for a romantic date night at a restaurant or the movies, odds are that you have to be a little creative at home this year.
Whether you choose to opt for a homemade dinner in, game night, or movie from the comfort of your couch, we’ve compiled 10 questions to ask your partner to help you connect on a deeper level. With these questions, you can practice Safe Conversations by mirroring, validating, and empathizing with your partner. Remember to put away your phones and take a moment to stare into your partner’s eyes, taking a deep breath together to connect.
- If you could wake up tomorrow with a new skill, what would it be?
- What is something you have dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
- If a crystal ball could reveal the truth about yourself, your future or your life, what would you want to know?
- What would your perfect day look like?
- If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, is there anything you would change about the way you are living now?
- Over the past year, what is one thing you’ve learned about yourself?
- What’s your idea of a healthy relationship?
- What is your most treasured memory of us?
- What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned from previous relationships?
- What do you want your legacy to be?
Truly listening makes someone feel important, loved, and connected. These questions are a great starting point for practicing the Safe Conversations dialogue. We challenge you to set aside some intentional time this Valentine’s Day and walk through these with your partner!